The law says that if the stalker has actual notice that the victim does not want to be contacted or followed, that can be used against the stalker in a criminal case. Giving the stalker actual notice can show a court that the stalker knew what they were doing was harassing, threatening, or intimidating the victim. This can help build a criminal case against a stalker.
Actual Notice means that the stalker had some kind of knowledge that the victim did not want to be contacted or followed. There is no specific language or method that must be used for a notice to be valid. What’s important is that the notice tells the stalker to stop trying to contact the victim. You can simply say something like, “I don’t want you to try to contact or follow me anymore. Please stop.”
Your safety should be your first priority when giving notice to a stalker. Second, you want to be able to show a court that the stalker actually knew you didn’t want them contacting you. A certified letter is a common way to show actual notice. But, sending a certified letter may also escalate a situation because a stalker may find it threatening. Your stalker could act more dangerous after feeling threatened. You may also use email, a text, or social media message. Take a screenshot showing that your message was read. Keep any screenshots or records showing that you gave actual notice safe, in case you need it for court.
For your safety, it’s a really good idea to talk to a Crime Victim Advocate and a lawyer if you have any questions about giving notice to a stalker. You can also reach out to your local law enforcement, if you feel comfortable doing so.